I know that as a grandparent you have many privileges because you have "paid your dues." You get to "spoil" the grandchildren as much as possible. That doesn't mean your actions will not only astound the parent but also leave the parent speechless. Take for example, Pops (Jason's father) eating peanut butter out of the jar, with his finger (we won't even talk about that) and then letting Ziva do the same. Gross! We still love them and appreciate all that they have and will do for us, but we do have to ask..."Really Pops? Really?"